Play Date
Sex, Eroticism and The Integrated Shadow
June 20th 2026
Shiloh Tea House, Downtown Los Angeles
6pm-9pm PST
LIMITED TO 35 PARTICIPANTS
In every adult, there is a primal being who earned early on what love feels and looks like, what desire is allowed to be, and what the body is for.
This workshop is an invitation to trace that learning back to its source, not to analyze it, but to know it, to name it, and to begin to choose (and fuck) differently.
Through guided inquiry, and bodied awareness, and the kind of honest conversations most of us never have you'll uncover the invisible blueprint underneath of your attractions, your patterns, and your deepest erotic longings.. and discover what you've been reaching for an intimacy was never random.
It was always trying to bring you home.
Integrity Of The Space
The container matters as much as the content.
What makes this room different from any other room is not the topic. It's the agreements we make before we enter.
These are not rules.
They are an architecture for safety because real depth only becomes possible when people know exactly where the walls are.
Let's be clear about what this is, and what it isn't.
This is NOT:
A play party
A tantric ritual
A pickup event
Group therapy
A place to perform
Sexually explicit
This IS:
A guided inquiry
Deeply personal work
Emotionally honest
Fully clothed
Intellectually alive
Who Is This For
This workshop is built for the person who has done the work — therapy, coaching, self-development — and still finds themselves repeating patterns in the bedroom they can't fully explain. It's for people who are tired of talking about sex abstractly and want to understand the why underneath the why. It’s for those who want to elevate their FREAKQUENCY and fuck in a whole new embodied way.
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For Her
She wants great sex, but the sex on offer hasn't been worth the risk. She's curious, embodied, and done shrinking her desire to make others comfortable. She's ready to name what she actually wants. She’s ready to be feral.
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For Him
He genuinely wants to be a great lover, but no one has ever taught him how to create the safety and containment that are needed for his lover to truly open up. He's open, emotionally intelligent, and ready to understand the erotic landscape from the inside out — his and hers. He’s ready to fuck with all of him, shadow and light.
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For All
People who have great lives but a nagging absence at the erotic center. Who miss intimacy more than they admit. Who knows desire is still in there, and want to find it again. They want to find their primal wholeness.
The Arc Of The Evening
This workshop is an intimate and exploratory journey into the deeper layers of your erotic and emotional self. Through guided reflection, you'll move through four key areas of inquiry designed to help you understand the forces that have shaped your desire, your patterns, and your relationship with your own body.
Layer 1 – Your Body's History
We begin at the foundation: the emotional landscape you grew up in. What messages surrounded your body as a child? Was affection freely given or rarely offered? Was your body a source of power, or something to be managed?
Layer 2 – Your First Erotic Charge
We explore the earliest moments of aliveness you can remember. A scene, a scent, a sensation. What was the texture of that charge? Tender? Dangerous? Forbidden? This often reveals more about our erotic blueprint than we expect.
Layer 3 – Your Patterns and Mirrors
We turn toward your most significant attractions and ask: what do they reflect back to you? What qualities do you consistently reach toward or push against? We'll trace the thread back to that first charge and ask where the echoes live.
Layer 4 – Getting What You Want
We bring it into the present. How does sex come into your life right now? What does communication around desire look like before, during, and after? This layer is about closing the gap between what you long for and what you allow yourself to have.
What You Will Leave With
Not just insight. Actual tools and a language for desire you've never had before. They include:
The energetic blueprint underneath your attraction patterns
Language for what you actually want — spoken out loud, maybe for the first time
A practical framework for having the conversations that make great sex possible
The understanding of why you've been reaching for what you've been reaching for
Investment: USD 200
June 20th 2026
Shiloh Tea House, Downtown Los Angeles
LIMITED TO 35 PAX
Your Guides
Jacqueline works at the intersection of desire, intimacy, energy and personal evolution — because who and how we love is the most honest map of who we are.
Jacqueline is the creator of the Disruptive Dating Method — a framework that guides men and women to change the unconscious blueprints shaping who they choose, so they can build the secure, juicy, and equitable relationships they actually want. Her work draws on science, somatics, and soul. While her approach is precise, embodied, and unapologetically honest.
The work she delivers is guided by her conviction that desire, intimacy, growing, and relational depth are not indulgences. They are the vast terrain of our becoming.
Arivind Abraham serves as a ferryman for those navigating the passages between death and rebirth. His work is rooted in Tibetan Buddhist practice, his maternal lineage's relationship with Kali Amman, and decades spent learning what it means to die and be reborn—again and again. He guides others through the liminal spaces where the old self falls away and something truer begins to emerge