Life Happens In Relationship

Upcoming Experiences

Sex, Eroticism and The Integrated Shadow

With Jacqueline Stevens
5pm-8:30pm PST
June 20th
Casa Sangha, Santa Barbara

Play Date

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Man And
The WitchWound

A 4 Week Healing Container
For Men
Begins July 10th 2026

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Reclamation

Ancestral Reconnection and Underworld Work

With Ish Hasan
August 27th - August 30th 2026
KDOL Mount Tuam Buddhist Retreat Center
Salt Spring Island, BC Canada
LIMITED TO 8 MEN 

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About Arivind Abraham

Life is to be lived. Even more so because death is certain.

The miracle of your birth in this timeline is not to be taken lightly.

All of life unfolds in relation to others, to nature, to the unseen world, and most importantly, to Yourself.

Find the offering that meets your relational needs right now. Don't shy away from the chance to change in community.

My work is rooted in relationship with Kali Amman, Hecate, Anpu, and Exu Caveira, as well as Tibetan Buddhism.

It is driven by my own direct experience with the full art of relating, across decades of life on three continents.

I am consistently supported and counseled by my guides Amir Khalighi of Embodied Masculine and Kai Karrel & Jade Osborne of the Umbandaime Church of Celestial Heart.